习惯让我们忘记了去呵护亲情

作者:亲立 来源: 爱写作网iixz.com 阅读: 5
习惯让我们忘记了去呵护亲情

  母亲呵!天上的风雨来了,鸟儿躲到它的巢里;心中的风雨来了,我只躲到你的怀里。

  ——冰心

  “亲情”一直是我不敢轻易去触碰的字眼,一方面是我不善于表达自己的情感,怕自己的薄弱的语言能力会形容不好自己对于它的感受;一方面也觉得太肉麻,认为它是用来在心中感受的,从嘴里说出来,无论是多么的华丽的语言都会使它褪色。所以迟迟没有也不愿去提及以及思考关于亲情的任何事情。

  越是这样,随着时间的推移,我的关于亲情的负罪感就越加的沉重,尤其是在不经意间看到父母经受风霜洗礼的苍老的脸庞、深深的一道道的皱纹、数不清的银白色的头发(我不知什么时候开始刻意不盯着父母的外表看了,只是不想接受他们已经变老了,也不想让自己的心里太难受。)的时候,看着他们本该在享福的年纪却还辛辛苦苦没日没夜的下苦力的时候,听着他们如何如何不舍得穿贵的衣服、不舍得吃好吃但又太贵的饭、不舍得去大医院看病、不舍得花钱旅游、不舍得买水果……的时候。

  每当这种负罪感充斥于身体的每一处肌肤慢慢深入血液直至骨髓时,我都会在心中默默的用悲伤又带励志的语气对自己说:“你得抓紧时间了,得更加努力了,得趁父母老去之前挣足够的钱,让他们不再为钱发愁,让他们好好享受生活,比那些大城市里的老人的生活还好,让他们被村里的所有人都羡慕!”。仔细好好回味一下这话,似乎亲情的含金量不是太高,更多的是自己的虚荣心的成分。我想让父母不再奔波劳累、安心享受生活的、幸福安康的心不需质疑,可是这样的等待最终肯定会造成“树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待。”的痛苦后果。无疑这不是我想也最最不愿意遇到的。

  父母和我在一起的时候,我心里曾想过带父母去大饭店里吃一顿好吃的。我一直记得母亲陪我去深圳打工的时候,表哥请我们在饭店吃饭,其中有一盘鱼,母亲到现在都赞不绝口,说那时候要不是怕表哥会觉得母亲贪吃就把那盘鱼全部吃了,到最后还剩那么多都没有人吃,怪可惜的。因此我也一直想让母亲再次到饭店吃到那种味道的鱼??墒且幌氲侥盖着禄ㄇ?,说了母亲肯定会反对,而且母亲做出的饭也很可口而且花费的钱简直可以忽略,就没有提,其实我心里也明白还是自己心里也觉得没有必要花那个钱,也觉得是浪费??墒遣恢涝趺椿厥?,心里却总会有一种难以言表的别扭、不舒服。

  其实我也不明白,我请朋友、同事、自己、女性吃饭的时候从来没有过多的犹豫过,可唯独请父母吃饭的时候却经常犹豫,而且还不付诸行动,为什么呢?只是因为他们是你的父母,不会太在意你如何对待他们,只要你开心、快乐、幸福就好,至于他们吃多大的苦、受多大的累都无所谓,还会一如既往的对你百分之二百的好,还怕给你的不够多。所以你每次也就心安理得的习惯了这样对待他们,无视他们的存在,忘记了他们也是人,也是肉体凡胎,有血有肉,也需要你的关心、呵护,而不是无节制的忽视。

  父母不仅给了我们的生命,而且还陪我们风雨无阻的走过了半生,这该是多么重的恩惠啊,我们却因为习惯给忽视了,忘记了去呵护这一来之不易的亲情,而且还在源源不断的、毫无节制的索取,这该是多么的可恨、可悲、可叹、可耻啊。

  亲情的种子伴随着阳关、晨露、月光、呼吸一切有生命的物体播撒在全世界的每个角落,它是需要用心去呵护的,不然即使它的生命力再顽强,也会褪色不少的,甚至死亡的,希望我们思之、慎之??!

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